Monday, March 16, 2015

China Trip Day 12 – 3/15/16 – Consulate Appointment Woes


Today we woke up early for our U.S Consulate appointment. Theo was dressed to impress in his Red, White, and Blue. We were nervous about the documents that were supposed to be sent express mail last night. We had a light breakfast and met the rest of our group (those with consulate appointments today) in the hotel lobby. Everyone was nervous as our guide passed out folders containing information regarding the consulate appointment. When she came to us, “good news, your documents arrived late last night and you are ok.” Phew… An answer to prayer! “but… (our hearts sinking) two of the families did not sign one of the other papers required. I think this may be a problem for them.” Good grief we thought. Could it get any worse? Just as we are about to take the last step needed to bring our children home, more issues?


Theo at breakfast


After confirming that we were not one of the families with a missing signature, we boarded the bus headed for the consulate. Unfortunately one of our close friends on the trip, who have had a tough time with their adoptive daughter’s health (coughing and fever), were one of the couples missing a signature. They have had it rough this trip, and the bad news keeps coming their way. If not for their strong faith in Christ, they would be a wreck I think.

Outside the consulate, they decided to press on and hope that this form would not stop the process for the day. Maybe the department could start on some of the paperwork while the rest was sorted out over the next day or so. We were all praying this would be the case.



Outside the Consulate



Line to get into the Consulate


There were hundreds of Chinese citizens waiting in line for a visa appointment. Some on benches, others crowding the entrance gate. We were not allowed to bring our cameras, but we did try to catch a few photos on our phone. Our guide took us straight up to the front of the line, said something to the guard, and we all were allowed to bring our babies through the masses. At the next line, our guide explained that she could not come with us but gave us directions to the 2nd floor, window 7 for all adoptive family visas. Luckily, we had scheduled appointments for each family, and were able to bypass this line as well, as the guard looked over our passports and found our names on the 8:30am appointment list.

Once inside for the security screening, I will admit, Laura and I had a bit of a tussle. All of our baby supplies for the next 3 hours were in my backpack, and guess what… no backpacks allowed. We sorted through as fast as we could to pull out all the necessities as Laura made a case to the guard that this was all important to bring through and that it made no sense to bring everything in the backpack inside, but not the backpack. I was just willing to do whatever they wanted to let us through… hence the “tussle”. Someone from behind us whipped out a plastic bag, and after loading it up, we were through.

Once inside, now a bit frustrated, I pressed on to the door pointed out by our guide while we were walking up to the building while Laura followed. Don’t worry, we quickly made up J. On the 2nd floor, we could immediately tell something was wrong as we stepped off the elevator. A man working for the Department of State had a group of adoptive families sitting down and was reading them something from a small piece of paper.

“Unfortunately, we are experiencing computer system issues, and are unable to process any visa applications at this time. We have rescheduled your appointment for 1:00pm tomorrow. We are doing everything we can to resolve this issue as quickly as possible.”

WHAT??!? I could tell that Laura was seeing red. For any of you that know us, this is a bad thing for the person responsible.

The next few minutes were literally a blur, the man and now a woman from the Department of State, with fresh coffee tumbler and a piece of paper gave us no more information than what was written on the piece of paper. I am surprised no one threatened him, due to his smug smile and continuous reading of the piece of paper when asked for any more insight by everyone who came off the elevator. I know they realize the inconvenience for all of our families. The possibility of an extra night’s hotel stay, a missed flight, or loss of deposit for another travel arrangement. But do they really understand? What about our jobs, the people watching our children at home, the medical appointments we have with various doctors in the U.S. Do they think of these things? Luckily, they did allow us to hand over a photograph and a copy of Theo’s passport at window number 7, which they claimed would start the process even without the computer system.

We left feeling defeated.

Our guide took us all back to the hotel, and we spent the next few hours trying to sort things out. What should we do? Do we cancel our hotel in Hong Kong for tomorrow night? Will the State Department be able to process our child’s visa within a few hours, or is this a 24 hour process? Should we call the travel agency or let our agency explore the options for us? Our guide asked us all to meet in the hotel lobby at 5:00pm to discuss the options and take a group photo.

We spent the rest of the day taking a trip to the park across the street and visiting the 5 Ram Statue. Laura went for a workout to relieve some stress, while Theo and I took a nap (he is already a boy after my heart). We met up with Laura’s Etsy friend Mallory, her husband, their son, and newly adopted daughter Norah. It was a nice reunion, but with all the action from the day, short lived. They are kind, loving and encouraging. We wish there was more time we could spend with them on this trip, but our hearts are back home right now. Maybe tomorrow we will be able to spend more time with them.


Five Ram Statue (yes we counted 5)


Laura and her friend Mallory with Theo and Norah


Bethany March 2015 China Families


Our group photos in the lobby were not as joyful as they could have been, but there are many encouraging families on this trip. We have all had time to bond in our own ways. God keeps reminding us through other families that things could be more stressful, more discouraging, more difficult. Our child is healthy. His personality and physical traits match his diagnosis on the referral. Some families have not had the same outcome. We continue to pray throughout this trip for all of our new friends. It is obvious that we are all ready to get home.

The plan for tomorrow is to wait and see. The first group leaves for the Consulate at 9:00am. This is when we will find out what our options are and have to make some decisions. Jokingly, we credited the issues today to Hillary Clinton’s email account. Seriously, we are praying that this slight timeframe extension helps our friends get the signed paperwork here before their appointment. Please pray specifically that the United States will resolve the computer system issues at the State Department and issue Theo’s visa before close of business tomorrow.
 

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